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'The pressure to be exceptional is making us miserable'

Published 2026-08-17

In Korea, an ordinary life is often treated as one that falls short, says Han Gru, a professor at Fairfield University in Connecticut and the creator of the life-advice YouTube channel newyorkcrab, which has about 90,000 subscribers. In his new memoir, "I've Decided to Live Like an Enlightened Wild Animal" (literal translation), Han reflects on the value of an unremarkable life, suggesting that there is nothing wrong with not being exceptional — and that the pressure to become so can make people

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Frequently Asked Questions

What does Han Gru suggest about ordinary life?

He suggests that there is nothing wrong with living an unremarkable life.

Why does the pressure to be exceptional cause misery?

It creates unrealistic expectations and can lead to feelings of inadequacy.

What is the title of Han Gru's memoir?

The memoir is titled 'I've Decided to Live Like an Enlightened Wild Animal.'

How does Han Gru share his message?

He shares his message through his YouTube channel and his memoir.